Baby Milestones- Should I be Worried?
- melanietan2
- Dec 11, 2023
- 1 min read

Baby Milestones provide a helpful guide to measure your child's development.
Unfortunately, they are often an additional source of stress and concern too. More so, when your child appears to be behind schedule. Read on as we seek to address some of these concerns.
What Is Expected?
0 - 6 Months
Gross Motor
Head and trunk control
Hold head against gravity in various positions
Sits with arms propped
Maintains balance in sitting with head turns
Fine Motor
Hands to midline
Reaches to toys
Grasps and holds rattle
6 - 12 Months
Gross Motor
Rolls and sits up independently from lying
Pushes into 4 point position independently
Crawl
Pulls to stand with arm support
Cruises and takes steps with hand support
Fine Motor
Grasps toys in each hand and brings together
Transfers toys from one hand to the other
Claps hands
Progression from palmar to radial palmar grasp to radial digital grasp
Development of gross pincer grip
12 - 18 Months
Gross Motor
Stands from floor independently
Squats to pick up toys and stand
Creeps up steps
Climbs stairs with hand held
Walk backwards
Fine Motor
Opens book
Stack a tower of 2-3 blocks
Finger isolation and pointing
Refinement of gross to fine pincer grip
Palmar grasp for writing or colouring
18 - 24 Months
Gross Motor
Runs forwards
Walk up steps without help, commonly two feet to one step
Walk down steps holding adult’s finger, commonly two feet to one step
Walks sideways and backwards
Fine Motor
Turn pages of book, one page at a time
Stack a tower of 5 or more blocks
Draw vertical lines
Place shapes into correct holes in formboard
From the ages of 2, it is worth nothing that there is variability between children and skills may develop at different rates. Some of this may be attributed to their interest, the presence of elder siblings, as well as exposure.
2 - 3 Years
Gross Motor
Kick and throw a ball
Attempt to catch ball (catches with arms > hands)
Tiptoe and takes steps with hand held
Climbs steps using reciprocal steps, may use rail
Attempts to jump
Jump upwards or off low step
Fine Motor
Attempt new Actions:
Combing hair
Brushing teeth
Progression to pronated grasp:
Transition from palmar grasp
Fingers active and involved
Movement still dominantly from elbow
Draw vertical lines
Cut paper in place
3 - 4 Years
Gross Motor
Run, hop, stand on one leg
Catch ball with arms extended
Goes up and down stairs with reciprocal steps
Jump forwards or off higher steps
Pedal and steer a tricycle of bicycle
Fine Motor
Stack a tower of 6 or more blocks
Progression to 5-finger or static quadrupod grasp
Hand dominance solidifies by ~4 years
Able to draw a circle
Able to trace horizontal line
Neutral wrist in writing position
Start to display dissociation of fingers
4 - 5 Years
Gross Motor
Throw, bounce and catch ball
Skip
Jump over objects, jump and land in opposite direction
Climb playground ladder
Climb up and down stairs using reciprocal steps with minimal effort
Fine Motor
Progression from static to dynamic tripod grasp
Connect dots
Doing and undoing button
Use scissors to cut paper and simple shapes
Lace 2 to 3 holes
What Can I Do To Help?
Increase Stimulus
Tummy time
Songs, books
Talk and engagement
Learning and Exposure through Play
Use of toys as motivation
Sensory exposure- leaves, sand, grass
Gross Motor Skills
Setting up furniture to encourage standing or steps
Encourage walking as much as possible (once able)
Playground- ladder, swing, slide
Rolling and somersaults
Encourage finger and self-feeding
Practise utensils as much as possible
Engage in household and every day tasks
Reinforcement, encouragement and reassurance
Fine Motor Skills
Picking and transferring small items
Use of small bowl or ice cube tray
Beans, small toys, beads
Progression to use of tweezers
Pegs
Threading practice
Shoelace and big beads
Progression to shoelaces and yarn
Peeling and pasting stickers
Using broken crayons for colouring
Writing or colouring against a vertical surface
Use of moldable clay or plasticine
Rolling into sticks
Cutting and using fork
Pre-writing Skills
Lines
Shapes
Dot-to-dot
“Bubble” letters
When Should I Seek Help?
< 12 months
Advised to seek professional advice if lacking milestones within 3 month “expected”
12 - 18 months
Advised to seek professional advice if lacking milestones within 3 month “expected”
Not walking by 18 months
> 24 months
Advised to seek professional advice if lacking milestones within 6 month “expected”
Key Points of Consideration:
Certain skills develop faster than others
Variability between children
Consider entire child:
Physical- Gross and Fine Motor Skills
Speech and Language
Cognition
Socio-emotional
Advised to seek professional advice if more than one domain is delayed
Not meeting milestones along the way and seems to be lacking progression of skills
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